Different acts make each of us feel loved. You might be killing yourself cleaning up around the house, when what actually makes him/her feel loved is a long hug. Take the test and find out if words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, or physical touch work best for you. Perhaps have your partner the take test too and discuss how you show and receive love.
Perhaps have your partner the take test too and discuss how you show and receive love. http://www.5lovelanguages.com/