I’m a fan of sweet talk, maybe because the south runs through half my family.  I don’t mean sweet fake though, but sweet genuine.  What if we did more acts of kindness like Shea Glover did in her video?

Sweet complements are generous and can really switch your brain’s state.  Doing hard work in your relationship? Find one thing you can really appreciate about your partner and let them know.  Or if that’s too much just hold it in your heart and think it when you are around her.  Are you and overachiever?  Then spend 5 minutes appreciating your partner out loud.